Don't believe what anyone says about you if you do not feel it is true. Name calling/being bullied is the most hurtful thing a child must endure when growing up. Statistically, those children grow up to become abusers themselves, often expressed in gaslighting and name calling others as well as denying saying anything inappropriate. Yes, let us choose peace over drama, and a mutual respect. Either we are all crazy or no one is crazy. I like to think of myself as a good kind of crazy, bringing gentleness, compassion and clarity...through my poetry, healing practice, and simply my presence. Some of my finest spiritual teachers were terrifically crazy, going to great lengths to edify with humor, artfulness, and loving kindness. I don't wish to be thought of as normal, if that means always acting in predictable ways. There is no true inner growth there. I go out of my way not to hurt others.Sometimes that means distancing, when the drama blurs perceptions/the truth of the situat...