sudden loss~not familiar with laughing at a funeral
for Stephanie and Lucio-- in memory of Stephanie Costanzo understanding I wasn't familiar with laughing at a funeral I'm glossy eyed at the loss of a friend I had just begun to learn about by hanging out over tea- she came with her husband to hear me play piano at the cafe' they came late, and stayed until most folks had coffee and desert- after the salmon dinner, the community sharing in music poetry and revelry just seven weeks before i just learned of your passing your husband now in stable condition- all i can do is pray this year has been an indulgence in prayer- as if it could bring the spirits of those who had died back for a while-- to recognize who among their friends were honoring and grieving- a friend who left smiling too very soon to be leaving who still had much life and spark left in her... a woman who spent most of her time with her adoring husband- they- who taught ballroom dancing just driving, just swerved ...